Update.....

So just to update everyone...I am no longer Mrs. J....E and I are getting a divorce And he moved to California...On Father's Day. Gotta love that. So anyway, I am just moving on with my life. To be honest. I wasn't happy and I knew that and him leaving was really doing me a favor. But nonetheless it still hurts when a marriage ends. Because at the end of the day...I still loved him, otherwise I wouldn't have gotten married. The one thing that is truly amazing to me, is how easily he could walk away from his child, and without any remorse. Since he's been gone, he has called the babysitter to talk to D once...Apparently whatever life he left to go lead in California is so exciting that he is too wrapped up on that. Pretty much the whole time we were married, I worked and supported the family AND went to school full-time. He just went to school, and I let it happen. As soon as he graduated from school, I was no longer useful...apparently. Which I think THAT is what is getting to me, because the reality of the situation is that he got over on me. He used me to get his education and now he's off to lead his life, without so much as a second thought for D or for the marriage. Just I'm done and I'm out.